Are there any apps that give full access to texts, even deleted ones?
Hi Audrey! Yes, there are apps out there that give parents access to their child’s texts, including deleted messages. One that’s often mentioned in parenting groups is mSpy. It lets you view texts, call logs, and more. Of course, it’s important to talk openly with your child about privacy and why you want to monitor their messages. Have you tried talking with them about your concerns before using an app?
Yes, that software exists. But using it secretly will destroy trust. This is a communication problem, not a technology one. If you have concerns, you need to talk to your child directly. Surveillance is a last resort and breeds resentment. Your relationship is the first line of defense.
I know that gut-wrenching fear, Audrey. I remember a period with my own daughter when she became distant and secretive, glued to her phone. I spent a whole night researching those very apps, my heart pounding with every “parental control” feature list I read. The tech absolutely exists.
But in the end, I put my laptop away. The next morning, I made her favorite pancakes and just sat with her. I didn’t accuse, I just said, “I feel like there’s a wall between us lately, and it’s scaring me.”
Several parental control apps offer extensive access to text messages, such as mSpy, Qustodio, and Bark. Some claim to recover deleted messages if backups exist. Compatibility and available features may vary depending on device type (Android vs iOS) and updates, so always review the functions before installing.