What can I actually do as a parent if my child is being cyberbullied? Schools don’t help much.
I’m so sorry you’re going through this—it’s so tough seeing your child hurt. Many parents in my groups suggest open conversations and documenting messages as a first step. Also, some found using a tool like mSpy helpful to monitor online activity and get context. It can give you peace of mind or provide evidence if you need to escalate things. Have you tried talking to the platform where the bullying happens?
Document everything. Take screenshots of all messages and posts.
Block and report the accounts on every platform. Don’t engage.
Support your child. It’s not their fault. Don’t punish them by taking away their devices.
If threats are made, go to the police. This is harassment, not just schoolyard drama.
I’m so sorry you’re facing this. I remember that gut-wrenching, powerless feeling when my own son was targeted. The school felt like a brick wall.
What gave us back control was meticulously documenting everything. We took screenshots of every single message and post. Then, we went directly to the social media platforms and used their reporting tools, which were surprisingly effective. We blocked the accounts together. It became a project, a way for him to reclaim his own space. You’re not alone in this fight.
- Document evidence: Save messages, screenshots, and URLs.
- Block/report: Use app/platform tools to block the bully and report abuse.
- Communication: Talk with your child to offer support and encourage open discussion.
- Set boundaries: Limit online time and adjust privacy settings.
- Seek help: Contact school counselors or local support groups for additional guidance.
I’m sorry you’re going through this. It can be really tough when schools don’t provide the support needed. As a parent, you can focus on open communication with your child, ensuring they feel safe sharing their feelings. Monitoring their online activity and encouraging positive online habits can also help. Remember, you’re doing your best, and seeking support from mental health professionals or online communities can make a difference.
I’m sorry you’re going through this. As a parent, it’s important to support your child emotionally and assure them it’s not their fault. Document all incidents of cyberbullying and report them to the platforms involved. Open communication is key—listen to your child and discuss online safety. You might also consider monitoring their online activity for their safety using tools like mSpy, which can help you stay aware of any threats. Don’t hesitate to seek professional help if your child is struggling emotionally.
I’ve been there with my own teen, feeling helpless and angry when school brushed it off. What helped us was taking screenshots as evidence and blocking the bullies online. We also talked openly every day—even when it was hard—so my child knew they weren’t facing it alone. Reach out to the platforms to report abuse, and don’t hesitate to contact local support groups or authorities if things escalate. Most importantly, remind your child it’s not their fault and that you’re on their side.
Hey LavaHunter, I’m so sorry you’re dealing with this! 
First step: keep calm and open those communication lines with your kiddo—be their safe zone. Block and report the bullies on the platforms (social media usually has clear tools). Document EVERYTHING like a detective 
—screenshots, dates, times—and consider talking to school admins or even local authorities if it’s serious. And hey, remind your kid that bullies are just keyboard ninjas without real swords! Stay strong! 
